
From time to time I like to reintroduce some of my favorite posts that some of the new readers may have missed.
Here is one on leadership.
Recently, I had the opportunity to work with a rapidly expanding local company on a development program for their
high potential managers and supervisors. I worked with them on subjects such as teambuilding, communication, conflict
resolution, organizational stress and leadership.
The company’s senior management assembled a group of managers and supervisors from around the country for a
two day retreat. They all had been with the company for varying lengths of time, had varied job responsibilities, and
were quite interested in working to identify and solve the organizational issues found in most companies, especially
growing companies with multiple locations. They were a dedicated and hardworking group.
I began the discussion on leadership with my customary question for the students: "Identify a leader".
The usual suspects came quickly to mind. I heard the names of Tom Brady and Bill Belichick from the New England
Patriots, Curt Schilling and Terry Francona from the Boston Red Sox, Oprah, Bill Gates, Dr. Phil, George Bush, Mother
Theresa, Donald Trump and even TV tough guy Tony Soprano. These selections seemed to be in the news every day, and many
were media darlings. But were they all leaders?
We began to discuss leadership qualities and styles, and why these famous people made their list. Identifying why
the students considered them as leaders was a harder assignment. What I heard were platitudes of these famous people,
but not the specific leadership qualities and behaviors I was looking for. I called them People Magazine leaders.
Now don’t get me wrong. The class ultimately developed an impressive list of leaders, some of whom have had a
significant impact on the world, but to me, they may have confused leader and celebrity. I was looking for a deeper
meaning of leadership, one not found on television or in the popular press, but in every day life. They needed to look
closer to their own lives to see the impact and importance of leadership. Another list was needed.
Where were our parents? Our spouses? Our teachers and mentors? Our co-workers and bosses? What about the crossing
guard who keeps our children safe? The community leaders and local clergy active in food pantries and shelters? The
doctors and medical staff who keep our family healthy? The business owner who fights to keep the local factory open in
spite of intense of international pressures? To me, these are the true leaders who have a daily impact on our lives,
but often do not get the credit they deserve. These are the quiet leaders who make a difference, and whose performance
should be celebrated.
Leaders exist in all organizations and they don’t have to be senior managers, or even be famous, to be
effective. Look around. They are the ones with passion, vision, and enthusiasm. They are dedicated to their causes,
jobs, organizations, and followers. They are consistent in task and clearly see what needs to be done. Most leaders
will not make it to the pages of People Magazine. These quiet leaders don’t crave the limelight, but do deserve
our attention and gratitude. Look around and identify your own list of leaders. They are the ones that make a
difference in our lives.